(Lack of) Equality


( Unequal Terms

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Recently I was accused of being libidinous and lacking any sense of propriety and mannerisms when talking to women in general. Though insulting in every sense possible, I concede that the accusation may hold some merit.

Most of my jibes do run along some lines which women in general may take as insolences, they forget to notice some mannerisms that guide me. And if I may, I’ll probably say that it is the women who accuse me of imprudence are in fact using gender as an excuse to protect themselves from my pokes.

After all it is the same girl who would not think a second before poking my patience. Where does the shield of ‘Being A Girl’ disappear then? And where does the equality lie?

I hate it, when girls(Not going to call them women for their immaturity) decide to use their gender as a means to win argument. More often than not, I have heard them say ‘I am a women and you will talk this way to me?!’ Or something of that order. But that same girl wouldn’t hesitate a second before crossing the same metaphorical lines for another person. So why use their gender to hide behind, when you can very well use individuality as a means to win an argument.

In short what I mean is that (some) girls more often than not think that they can get away with anything uttered or done simply because of their gender. But their same ideology vanishes into smoke when they should practice it.

The apparent hypocrisy of these individuals and their claims of being morally and ethically sound are what infuriates me. And then they decide that they are the perfect judges of your character.

How many times have you encountered a girl(or a guy) who wouldn’t give a second’s thought before that person starts bitching? And you could bet that the next sentence uttered will be along the lines of ‘I don’t like bitching, I’m not her’

It is asinine to be advocate of feminism and yet not understand that it encumbers no special preference to being a female.

I am not against the idea that certain reverence has to be given to females. Not because of their gender but because of their circumstances.

I should curb my ranting for now, I won’t be able to stop. After all I son want good amount of views and feedback on my post.

The very concept of equality is ideal at best. There couldn’t be equality among the gender because its prevalent to have chivalry and mannerism specific to a gender. And that is just the beneficial aspects of inequality. For women of course.

I treat people equally. Regardless of your gender or your sexual orientation you could expect me to.
treat you like I treat everyone else(I pass verbal jibes and pokes at everyone). There is your equality and that is possibly the best you could get from me.

Your gender doesn’t define you, its your abilities and choices that do. So possibly stop hiding behind the Being A Woman remark and face the world for what it is. Its hard, and it has nothing to do with you being a woman. We live in twenty first century, and in urban areas of Mumbai. You are not going to find any better place for gender equality in India(I think so).

FYI post is directed at a certain generic girls, not at females in general. I have had the pleasure of having great friends who are as open minded as they can get.

Thanks For Reading
Itsmayurremember

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3 thoughts on “(Lack of) Equality

  1. As much as I always root for my girls who are always under the pedestal when it comes to their relationships, I strongly second this opinion of yours too, Mayur. It’s heartbreaking to see some women hypocritically bitching around – and I feel like they’re literally defeating my purpose, period.

    They manipulate in the name of feminism, and they manipulate for money, fame and even for men. While I believe that a woman’s sense of beauty and charm is something that should be considered as divine and be put to more humble use for mankind, these kinds of women abuse this very divine power.

    And with great power comes great responsibility, now doesn’t it?

    Not just against men, these women confront other women too, which is even more of a disgrace. Here’s a memoir of mine about a similar experience, I hope it sheds light for you, Mayur:

    https://emasculatednomore.wordpress.com/2014/09/01/hey-shes-only-into-me-for-my-money-and-therefore-my-sperm/

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  2. Loved it Mayur…if it’s possible try to find the speech of Emma Watson…she recently gave it on Inequality…

    I am also sick of this bullshit attitude of girls…using sentences like I am girl don’t do this and that…behave well…and they don’t hesitate for a single second before abusing someone…god knows when will they get over with this attitude…

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