PS: I got an internship recently, and this is how I feel everyday.
Credits: The Mighty
What are you doing?
I am trying to understand this code.
You have to admit it is way beyond your comprehension.
No I got this.
You will screw up. They will know you are a fraud.
Shut up! You worked your ass off for this and damn it I am not going to let you quit now. Come on now, move!
Oh, this is gonna end well.
My mind is constantly working. When I am reading, my mind is concocting the next military fantasy novel, when I am coding my mind is trying to create ideas for the next big application. My mind does not deal with small issues.
Go Big or Go Home.
I sometimes hear my mind speak in a voice not very distant from my own, but it has a certain sense of arrogance that I can never manifest in mine. My mind wants perfection, it craves success and lastly, it wants that high of achievement.
I push myself to get it: constantly for almost everything. I have met people who say that it is tiring and they get burnout at the end of the day. I am lucky enough to not experience that so far. My mind is also smart enough to know when to stop trying.
Alas, it doesn’t know when to stop talking.
Oh shit! I screwed up.
No you did not, relax.
What have I done in my program: it completely crashes everything.
It is okay. Take a deep breath, you got this.
No I don’t. I should never have come here.
You are trying. That is all one can ever do, if it works or not is not in your hand.
Yeah I guess I can try.
It gets weird at times though. It is like I have the devil (he is not evil, mostly) and an angel sitting on my shoulders. One tells me to be the master of everything, to push above and beyond I have ever gone before. He tells me not to take shit from anyone ever, to keep chasing that perfection. It doesn’t give me the option of failure.
The other: it catches me when I fall, which is very often. It supports me, allows me to watch lots of dog videos when I am feeling down and slowly gets me back on track. It tells me it is okay to fail.
My internship has made the two voices extra loud. I am scared. Seriously scared about what will happen if I can’t do this.
You will not fail, you can’t.
I am struggling to understand how to code at the level of 4 year experienced coders. I have no idea how well I am doing.
It is okay, you are trying your best.
I am not afraid of asking for help, in fact that is what an internship is all about. Learning new things, working your way through challenges.Everyone is helpful at work, they never say no to helping out. They are also funny which is a bonus. I am just afraid of asking for too much help which can make them think I am not cut out for working at their level.
No you are!
I am afraid of being proved incapable. I am afraid of finishing my internship and realizing that maybe I wasn’t smart enough for all of this. I am afraid that my brain, which was once the my strongest asset, is no longer any asset.
If this does not work out then something else. You can manage things bro!